Status of the Relationship

Dear ___________,

I've been having a great time with you. The thing is, if I ask my friends, the way you ______________ and _______________ indicates we're officially "together". But I don't want to assume anything before I go changing my Facebook status.

So are we (circle one):

in a relationship
just hooking up
just friends
none of the above
if so, please specify: _______________________

Thanks.

Your something or other,
me.